It is often true that tmi can bite us in the a*s. I make it a policy to try and make sure the info I give won't hurt me too badly if it gets passed around. Plausible deniability, that's what I say.
Posted 5 Years Ago
5 Years Ago
an excellent strategy for sure...and so say all of us....cheers Lyn.... N
I still remember, when I first started on WC, you used to advice me to be very careful about what I say on line. Good friend like you is a blessing (for newbies especially ) However careful we are, we still learn some harsh lessons about people, that will leave permanent marks on our minds. important warning wrapped up in a very smart poem, Neville.
Posted 5 Years Ago
5 Years Ago
I am delighted that you get the point of these words M....and I thank you for commenting on them...... read moreI am delighted that you get the point of these words M....and I thank you for commenting on them.... N
5 Years Ago
your beautiful words are a joy. Good night my friend ( boa noite meu amigo).
Do You speak Bulgarian language at home? ... iam sure you know that the origin of your language has.. read moreDo You speak Bulgarian language at home? ... iam sure you know that the origin of your language has roots in Indo-European languages!
5 Years Ago
Not often, but occasionally and yes, I knew that...
It is a jungle out there and not just on social media. Anyone you decide to trust with sensitive information could be capable of betraying your trust. The art is to select carefully in the first place. You have to weed out those who haven't got a vindictive streak in them, and that ain't easy. How do you tell that? I'd say beware of women who keep diaries and who can copy and paste with ease (lol). Mind you, it works in reverse as well. How much would she be prepared to disclose about herself? Conclusion? There is an element of risk with any relationship. Good evening Neville and your title is a Duran, Duran song :)
Some still think of it as a garden Chris.. and yes, life is about choices, risks and opportunities.... read moreSome still think of it as a garden Chris.. and yes, life is about choices, risks and opportunities... was it a good song tho.... N
5 Years Ago
Not one of their best. Hope all is OK with you. Night night Neville.
This jas such a familiar tune playing in my head (clever how you managed that, that I was half expecting it to have the word writerscafe in the title. Words said in friendship and beyond thrown back when things don't go as planned for one, using their honesty against them and perhaps showing their true face when it all goes pear shaped.
Of course, I am reading between the lines here, which is usually where the spiteful recriminations are also found.
This is where my upfront nuttiness comes in handy, it makes you bulletproof to them, as no one in their right mind will message me :)
Online life eh? Its good when its good and...
Posted 5 Years Ago
5 Years Ago
I see what you mean Lorry and how it might easily apply here.. however these words were originally i.. read moreI see what you mean Lorry and how it might easily apply here.. however these words were originally intended to reflect some of the risks I imagine might be associated with any of the increasingly popular (so it seems) forms of social media... anyway... with you being bulletproof and me watching ya back you gotta be indestructible....Cheers, Neville