|
Imaginary audience. In early adolescence, people tend to believe that they are the center of others' thoughts and attentions, instead of considering that everyone is equally wrapped up in his or her own concerns and plans. In other words, adolescents feel that all eyes are focused on their behaviors.
Often these two characteristics can create either a feeling of isolation or the idea that they need to behave a certain way or achieve a certain level of popularity to fit in with their peers.
Social and moral development for an adolescent begins very early in life and is usually strongly influenced by their parents and close relatives. Social interaction is an extremely important factor in an infant’s development. Research has shown that children raised in impersonal surroundings or under abusive conditions suffer from a number of problems. They tend to form shallow or anxious relationships. Some appear forlorn, withdrawn, and uninterested in their caretakers, whereas others seem insatiable in their need for affection. An adolescent raised under these conditions could theoretically develop a pervasive instability in moods, interpersonal relationships, self-image, and behavior that could result in a number of psychological disorders that might become more prominent in adulthood.
“Developing a sense of right and wrong, or morality, is a part of psychological development.” It is believed that there are six stages of moral development. Stages three and four closely relate to adolescence. Moral reasoning advances from being self-centered to other-centered. The individual personality accepts conventional societal rules because they help ensure social order and judges morality in terms of compliance with these rules and values.
· Stage 3 (“good child” orientation). At stage 3, the primary moral concern is with being nice and gaining approval. People are also judged by their intentions and motives (“His heart was in the right place”).
· Stage 4 (law-and-order orientation). During this stage, the individual take into account a larger perspective-societal laws. Stage 4 individuals understand that if everyone violated laws, even with good intentions, there would be chaos. Thus, doing one’s duty and respecting law and order are highly valued.
Personality
During a period of serious questioning and intense soul-searching, adolescents develop a coherent sense of self and their role in society. Failure to resolve this identity crisis may be related to a lack of a stable identity, delinquency, and difficulty in maintaining close personal relationships in later life. Each adolescent struggles to develop an independent personality, usually going through stages of rebellion where they do things their parents or guardians would disapprove of (i.e. sexual promiscuity, drug experimentation, sneaking out and going to parties). Some people do not rebel during adolescence, feeling that they need to be the perfect child, the perfect student or the perfect friend. The stress of keeping up this appearance can damage the development of an adolescence personality, causing severe rebellion in their early adulthood which can cause damage to their stable relationships, jobs and futures. There are a multitude of other things that could hinder the development of personality in an adolescent including sexual molestation during childhood, a neglectful parent and even an overly demanding or protective parent.
Each developmental stage, from prenatal to adulthood, should not be taken for granted. A parent or guardian should pay close attention to their child as they age and develop, keeping a close bond with them through the adolescent years without overwhelming or smothering the teen’s need for independence.
|