Love

Live and love, that's life :)

Well I know the topic is absorbing but feel your

nerves that play a like a guitar whenever the

word comes across you.

The experience on the other hand is so enthralling

that everything in the world seems more or like satellites

around it. The sun seems blue, the sky red,

the flowers so beautiful and the birds like angels of

God!

You feel the significance of sacrifice, moments,

smile and happiness even though nobody ever told you so.

Doesn't that inspire awe, admiration or even let us wonder

how everything changes soon.

Well I am not here to ruin this sacred pilgrimage of the divine.

Rather I will choose to glorify it so that it sustain the slaps

of life and at the same time survive to it, sound and healthy!

My friends, lend me you ears and I will feed in the golden words.

The same I have tried to portray through my upcoming book

On A Drive With Life!!(Click Here) or (Click Here).

"Spend quality time and not Quantity of time!"

A few relationships count hours and days they spent together.

Remember, it is the quality of time that will give you memories

while the latter will only give you a habit.

"Love is life, but not the center of the Universe."

The moment you start giving everything you have, including

your thoughts, efforts and time completely engrossed in to it,

you cut the fragile bond with reality. You lose your connection

with friends, hobbies and the willingness to live. So usually when

break ups happen, you feel like dying!

"One who cares less controls the relationship."

Now don't take me wrong. I am not talking about ego or anything like

that. What I wish to convey is; When you start waiting for someone's call,

give importance to what the other person may think of you or excruciate

yourself because the other person ignored you. Believe me my friends, the relationship

will soon land in the cockpit of expectations, fights and distance. The other

person who cared a bit less and gave time to his/her life, unintentionally

controlled your relationship.

"Give space, pursue your hobbies, have a life beyond it and be charming, ambitious

and sane, because that is what every other person,be it anyone desires :)"

------->THE PUNCH LINE ON ITS WAYYYYY!<--------

Move on, It's just a chapter in your life! Don't close the book, just turn the page ;)

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Reviews

[Effector Prime]

You really don't have the slightest idea about love mate.. no one (Human) does.. but this is a good attempt.. deserves praise.

you see, the thing about love is, the more you try to understand (and appreciate it); the closer you get to that pinnacle of exuberance, or the apt "unconditional love"; the more you realise that love, in it's most purest unadulterated form, does not exist.

that's right, love is a myth. a fable. a fairy tale. but it is what deceives the human mind into binding with each other. now the love between a parent and child, that's incomparable. but romantic love, is only a showy extravaganza. a jewel adorned to signify pride. an ornament that encumbers the most devious of illusions.. love does not exist. love is the driving force that buys time. yes, the quantity that in fact aptly consumes the "quality" you wrote of. rock on compadre!

[Ankit Kumar]

Thanks for ur wonderful and flowery comments... I would advise that you please read again because I clarified my aim was not define love but to sustain the beauty of it...and for that I have mentioned some ways...For more read psychology books or better off with TW Jackson for a while...thanks again...

[Effector Prime]

fine.. there's nothing beautiful about love then BAHA! it's not existentially feasible to sustain what is not theoretically present. love is but solace to the naive.. only priorities, agenda.. inwardness, fundamentals.. love in all this? so be it, you may have only "aimed to define" how one could "prolong" such a theoretical virtue, but that's just a blueprint; and it will stay one. heavy metal (music) on the other hand disseminates emotional energy from that of "sentiments" and hands one an incomparable weapon. listen to heavy metal mate. soon you will write of this "weapon".

[Ankit Kumar]

That is what i said friend start reading psychology books...it will not deal with all what u defined above but the real thoughts and the after effects and then ur indulgence whichever it may be with aspect of emotional quotient and actions that may be included in the definition of love!

[Effector Prime]

wow.. I didn't understand a thing you said.. too prolific, at least for me.. but I will "start reading" these books that you speak of.. anything specific? there's an ocean of psychology books out there.. anything you'd recommend? I'd love to know where to start to analyse this.. elusive "love" thingy.. :)

[Savannah Bly]

Insightful and brilliant piece on love. Well done!

[Ankit Kumar]

Thanks a lot.. :)

[stars are far]

That was well done dear.. keep it up

[Ankit Kumar]

thank u :)

[Tinkerbellje]

Very good and insightful writing :-)

[Ankit Kumar]

thanks...I am delighted :)

[Bluefire]

"Move on, It's just a chapter in your life! Don't close the book, just turn the page ;)"
Very helpful and insightful.
Well done! ^^

[Ankit Kumar]

Thanks a lot my friend :)

[Bluefire]

No problem. ^^

[sushi]

Its differently put.... Love is a chapter of the book called life for some, for some its the theme of the book. Its how you manage making each chapter of the book interesting. Cause each chapter is equally important to make the book a good read. But at the same time, theme of the book should also be justified.

[Ankit Kumar]

must say -->cool ;)

[DIVYA]

This is mindblowing and I said before I am very impressed with the way you always make a point! When we give up living for someone, then we do feel like dying when they leave. We must understand and know that all things good come to an end, including 'eternal love' I really like the touch of wit and sarcasm you used to make your point.

Excellent punch line!

I am your great fan too. :)

[Ankit Kumar]

Thanks dear...your comments always motivate me...better start a fan club where we are fans of each other ;)