Truth and Consequences

Truth and Consequences

A Poem by Tate Morgan
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Some things are better left unsaid best locked in your heart there saved The pain you harbor in your chest is your own, to take to the grave

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Life seems a never ending dream

filled with hopelessness and despair

Where we are put to trial everyday

while suffering is everywhere

 

To friends who think they come up short

through transgressions against a mate

Who feel they should confess their sins

then sit back and accept their fate

 

Some things are better left unsaid

best locked in your heart there to save

The pain you harbor in your chest

is your own, to take to the grave

 

Confessing sins to a loved one

while it serves to ease guilt in you

Transfers your pain to the other

who is blameless for what you do

 

Shame is the thing that hurts the most

it teaches us valuable things

Such as what not to do next time

you are hurt and the telephone rings


 




© 2017 Tate Morgan



Author's Note

Tate Morgan
I have given this much thought. Many friends over the years have asked me if they should confess to their lovers. I have come to see it is a selfish act. While most religions and 12 step programs say confess as the Catholics do. I say no. You are crushing the innocent partners soul with your confession. Sometimes it's better to take responsibility for your actions. Live with the pain of what you did. It will help guide you next time. When one laments the wrongs of their life it creates these pains. They are called the conscience. So live with them. And try to be better next time. I have made many mistakes and I shall atone for them in the end. I did these things myself and it is not for others to suffer the consequences. I am glad I will take my own transgressions with me. After all I am responsible for what I do as is everyone. I have spent many years trying to reconcile with myself. I am not saying I did anything truly awful. However I let myself down more than a few times in my youth.

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Dear Tate,

Are you getting better as a writer?! It seems to me that your more recent writes greatly surpass what I've read of you in years past. Now know that I have always thought your poetry to be beautiful from a raw passion sense, and that full continues, but your recent skill in language is so wonderful.

Now in this piece, while I really love the poem, I read the "Author's Note" first, and I found the words to be profound. You and I agree wholeheartedly on this and I didn't think that any other really understood this. But you do. I am gratified. This is profound wisdom, Tate. I don't think I have any serious transgressions either--but you never know what might be serious to a loved one. Nonetheless, swallow it. Don't cause grief. Protect your loved ones. If they don't need to know and the knowledge would cause them pain, swallow it. Don't be selfish. Keep quiet and give them a hug instead. Now I'm not advocating lying or going behind a loved one's back. That is pure selfishness as well, and not in the best interests of family. No, I'm talking about protecting the ones you love, not pulling the wool over their eyes. I'm talking about being an adult and making well thought out and generous decisions. I'm talking about withholding unnecessary pain as you are as well.

Beautiful sentiments as always. I get this one and so fully agree.

Best regards,

Rick

Posted 5 Years Ago


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"Confessing sins to a loved one
while it serves to ease guilt in you
Transfers your pain to the other
who is blameless for what you do..."

No truer words have ever been written. I can really relate to this. I've learned over the years that even though you may feel like you understand or forgive someone for what they did to you, there will come a time in your life when you will despise them for the person they turned you into. Thanks for sharing.

Posted 3 Months Ago


Tate Morgan

3 Months Ago

Thank you sonnie I do believe we make our own hells
a healthy conscience (i believe) will always lead us to kneel in God's presence to admit and ask forgiveness .. our sins always cause pain for our loving Creator ..sometimes (i think) we are required to confess to another human in order to heal a relationship that has been damaged ..but in order for that to be the case we have to have caused pain .. if someone is in the dark about something done .. they have no pain .. revealing it can cause so much more destruction than the "sinner" taking it to the grave with them .. sometimes i wonder if upon my death i will have to reveal those kinds of things to the offended person before passing over .. your poem is so human and engaging .. causes my own soul searching ..
E.

Posted 1 Year Ago


Tate Morgan

1 Year Ago

Thanks Gene You bring up a good point.We haven't been too bad I think Ill let it ride.Soul searching.. read more
Einstein Noodle

1 Year Ago

i forgive you my friend! ;))))
Tate Morgan

1 Year Ago

Lol thanks
I can see your side as far as, is confession good for your soul, or are you destroying someone else?
This a beautiful piece with so must emotion. I too have made mistakes in the past and I will admit that I have spared some from the heartache of the truth.

Posted 1 Year Ago


Tate Morgan

1 Year Ago

It is better to suffer on behalf of our own indiscretions. Much better than to admit them to someone.. read more
so true my friend... you are so wise...

Posted 3 Years Ago


Tate Morgan

3 Years Ago

Hi deb thank you I know many would disagree but to assuage ones guilt at someone elses expense has t.. read more
Amazing poem keep up the great work and keep them coming

Posted 3 Years Ago


Tate Morgan

3 Years Ago

thank you melissa
melissa

3 Years Ago

You're welcome
Assuage your own guilt and hurt another or let it fester inside you and hope you have learned from your mistakes and don't repeat them. This is a difficult choice for me. I really enjoyed your poem, it's thought provoking and a debate most of us will have with ourselves at some point in our lives.

Posted 3 Years Ago


Tate Morgan

3 Years Ago

It isnt supposed to be easy for us to take We simply need to learn from mistakes that there are cons.. read more
Tate Morgan

3 Years Ago

As side from that this would injure a mans pride and that is what makes a man a man he will not get .. read more
SallyDM

3 Years Ago

I hear you ...
Nice capture. Hard to say what is the right thing to do. Right for whom is a good point? Does bearing the truth get a whole set of possibilities out there. Whys and why would you and why did you and will it happen again and what do I change and can we go back.... Being true is easier :)

Posted 3 Years Ago


Tate Morgan

3 Years Ago

It is ultimately better if unhappy to leave the other before starting a relationship with someone el.. read more
Great topic. A life lesson some of us have to learn from experience. We have to really determine if the confession is more or less constructive or destructive.

Posted 3 Years Ago


Tate Morgan

3 Years Ago

This is a lesson we learn from life that should follow us and remind us of why it wrong thanks Micha.. read more
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This is a master piece tate :) i love it more than i can
Ever say,how did you put it like that ?!!
But don't you think that a loved one shouldn't be
Fooled?! And he/she has to know and see the whole picture ?!!

Posted 3 Years Ago


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Tate Morgan

3 Years Ago

hi Nancy well I do not believe it is good to tell on yourself if you want to save your marriage it i.. read more

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