You didn't say no...

You didn't say no...

A Poem by Lucy
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In light of the the many women coming forward with allegations against Harvey Weinstein and my own personal experience, I wanted to write a poem around sexual assault and consent

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A pair of hands upon your shoulders
Fingers squeeze around your thigh
Nausea building within your stomach 
Your body frozen - a silent cry

The violence that we see in movies 
The sensational stories in the news
This isn’t what you’ve yet encountered
And so you find a way to excuse 

He says he’s just drunk and joking around
“All I did was squeeze your bum”
Now look at you silly, overreacting
“Drink some more, we're just having fun”

Things have stepped up a notch
In this erotic exchange 
You leave feeling dirty
And the one to be blamed 

If you hadn’t drank so much
Or had shown that much skin 
“You really need to be more careful”
Patience slowly wears thin

Guilt and fear begins to mount
You didn’t say no, you must’ve given consent
But you felt pressured and coerced 
But still not a no, so the silence leant

Towards the swamp of shame, 
You now find yourself stuck
He didn’t physically hurt you 
Just put it down to bad luck

But emotional wounds
Take much longer to heal
Angry, confused or upset
You need to check how you feel 

1 in 5 women
Too many to count
Consent is a yes
Absent from pressure or doubt.

© 2017 Lucy


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Lucy
Feedback is welcomed please.

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Thank you for this offer. All truth, and wonderfully stated.

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Added on October 24, 2017
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Tags: consent, women, sexual assault, no means no, guilt, shame, feminism

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Lucy
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