Hatred - A Powerful Emotion

Hatred - A Powerful Emotion

A Chapter by Dr. YumnaKay
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~ Rambling thoughts ~

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Hatred - a powerful emotion - which burns not only the one at whom it's directed but also the one from whom it comes.

A natural reaction for people we develop an instant dislike is to keep on hating/disliking them. It does not only take the positivity away from us but also a significant space in our heart which could have been filled otherwise by loving more and more people who really deserve to be loved.

A rational reaction - the people who've hurt you, they should cease existing for you. An empty space, a non entity. This brings not only peace of mind but also the reasoning that they were never meant for you. Then why care enough to remember them, especially with such a powerful emotion as hatred? It would only signify their importance in your life while they probably don't give a damn to what you think...

My point - make space in your hearts for the people you love. There are a lot of good people to remember...



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Another debate probably....

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So painfully and beautifully true. Hatred is fire, and it only burns all who come in contact with it. It fuels the flames of strife in families, with friends, and the ferocity of wars. But as I read your words, and then again, I sense your kind, healing heart breathing out wisdom to pour our energies into love, and loving those who are lights in our world. When that becomes our focus the hatred no longer has fuel to feed on, and we find the universe much sweeter and warmer in wonder and grace. Thank you for helping us find this path, dear Yumna.

Posted 3 Weeks Ago


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Dr. YumnaKay

3 Weeks Ago

Ah, you summarize this so well, Craig. As Rumi says: 'Love is the cure, for your pain will keep givi.. read more
An owl on the moon

3 Weeks Ago

Well, you know I much I appreciate your words and Rumi's words too. Yes, love is the cure; hatred is.. read more



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Hatred is a sickness. Life is too short to engage in it. I like your method of addressing this topic, and how you choose to not fight fire with fire but take the high road.

Posted 3 Weeks Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

3 Weeks Ago

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for appreciating, Clifford 😊
Knowing there are several people I love on this website who are tangled in such crossfire judgments, I find myself feeling lucky that the haters don't bug me anymore. But I've known these feelings & you've expressed them well. I agree that hatred is just a bottomless pit that will suck everyone dry. Your conclusion is the only wise one that leads to survival & celebration! (((HUGS))) Fondly, Margie

Posted 3 Weeks Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

3 Weeks Ago

I'm glad you're lucky one, you certainly deserve to be one 😊
Thank you so much for your w.. read more
Today when i opened writers caffee web site. I was really shocked how much comments of hate and rage some people can make. I think here is so many wounded people only what they need is love. Yes hate work on both side like victim and abuser are in suffering. We should love more each other here. We should have compassion for other souls pain. I like how you describe feels who also hate. We are all victims our experience but we can chose to be more good. Love is only way lets never explore in anger but let it pass and make calm reflection. When somebody hate they ussually hate with reason. But hate is not answer for anything even on hate atack. Thanks for this writing full of compassion and love.

Posted 3 Weeks Ago


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WRITER-----------POET

3 Weeks Ago

You welcome is was really great to read. Maybe i should also write about my experience with hatred. .. read more
Dr. YumnaKay

3 Weeks Ago

Ah I wouldn't bet on that but of course you should if you feel like it. :)
WRITER-----------POET

3 Weeks Ago

I think we should stop be silent about hatred or abuse. We should at least speak about it. How we fe.. read more
So painfully and beautifully true. Hatred is fire, and it only burns all who come in contact with it. It fuels the flames of strife in families, with friends, and the ferocity of wars. But as I read your words, and then again, I sense your kind, healing heart breathing out wisdom to pour our energies into love, and loving those who are lights in our world. When that becomes our focus the hatred no longer has fuel to feed on, and we find the universe much sweeter and warmer in wonder and grace. Thank you for helping us find this path, dear Yumna.

Posted 3 Weeks Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

3 Weeks Ago

Ah, you summarize this so well, Craig. As Rumi says: 'Love is the cure, for your pain will keep givi.. read more
An owl on the moon

3 Weeks Ago

Well, you know I much I appreciate your words and Rumi's words too. Yes, love is the cure; hatred is.. read more
This is so true, and hits a great time for me to read it. There should be no space in our hearts for hate, although at times it is necessary to walk away from those we care about because they are toxic or have hurt us, we still don't need to hate. We only hurt ourselves with that kind of emotion and using that kind of energy. This is a great reminder to people. A great read. Thank you for this.

Posted 7 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

7 Months Ago

True indeed. I think it's us who should be the one in control rather than people who mark how we beh.. read more
MaryKC

7 Months Ago

Your welcome.
Hatred - a powerful emotion. Like a punch in the face, this one hits you between the eyes and says 'Hey look at this'
This part 'A rational reaction - the people who've hurt you, they should cease existing for you. An empty space, a non entity.' - VERY VERY TRUE. Once you smell a rat or someone is up to no good then dont give them the time of day anymore - stay as far away. The words you used were SPOT ON.

Hatred is a strong emotion BUT sometimes it cant be helped.

No change this/change that. This piece doesn't need any of that. It's perfectly penned.

Mark.




Posted 7 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

7 Months Ago

I agree, it can't be helped but it can be controlled to the point of being nonexistent..
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matrixmark

7 Months Ago

Very true. I have no words to disagree .

Mark.
totally agreed with the knowledge u wanted to impart... why should we bother about those if they never valued us... eliminate their bad memories as well, they don't deserve to acquire a little space in our heart which they actually obtain in this way...


Posted 7 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

7 Months Ago

True. Thank you for your thoughts here. I appreciate it :)
A very realistic writing. Perhaps can be potted in so many other ways.

Posted 7 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

7 Months Ago

I am hoping you will be covering those ways in one of your ideas 😉😊
Thank you 😊
Wow!!..very powerful write Yumna,..I'm sure this was a punch in the stomach to some,..but to such a loving heart as mine, it made my insides smile so,..like the beauty of who you are my friend😊

Poeticme

Posted 7 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

7 Months Ago

Thank you for appreciating, Dennis. I'm glad it made you smile :))
I find personally that hatred is one emotion that has a very short half life. Much in the same way that love does sometimes, (Not all the time). Although I am minded from experience that one could change for the other.
This technique for dealing with it when it hurts is an excellent one. And one I would also commend. I can truthfully say that using a technique similar to this I have no hatred for anyone person in particular.
Now concepts like prejudice and bigotry are another matter entirely. But hatred need not always be hot. Sometimes it can be cerebal.
An outstanding essay Yumna.

Posted 7 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.

Dr. YumnaKay

7 Months Ago

I feel hating someone truly would mean seeing them destroyed, as in keeping ill wishes for them, som.. read more

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