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Who else is sick of wannabes?

14 Years Ago


Ok. i know that the majority of us here are outsiders- probably goths and emos and all sorts of weird and wonderful peole that i love to immerse myself in. but as much as i love these kinds of people, i'm sick of all the "i'm-so-sick-of-life-even-though-i-have-no-reason-to-be" kind of s**t. i'm not saying that it's coming from any1 in here. i'm actually talking about the kids at my school. there are groups, then there are the wannabes. there are the sporty guys, there are the chicks who are like a female equivalent (kinds like jocks and cheerleaders? 'cept we dont really have them here in australia) and then there are the full metal kids which kind of melds with emos these days, there are the real emos, there are the nerds, there are me n my guys, then there are all these annoying people who think that they can be someone that their not! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! i hate the chicks who paint their nails black and cut their wrists just to say "look at me, i have issues". yeah u DO have issues! issues that have nothing to do with your life except for your craving for attention. get over yourselves! can't you see that the only people who care about u are yourselves you sick little freaks? yeah i've cut my self. i have hundreds of scars of varying seriousness, i can no longer wear skirts because the tops of my legs look like a game of f*****g naughts and crosses, but i don't go around flaunting it! i listen to depressing music, i write poetry, i cut myself, i dress in black, i paint my nails, but i don't make my life revolve around my suffering. yeah ive been through depression and it was hell, but what these stupid little b*****s are goin through is nothing. they fight with mummy and daddy over f*****g curfew and think that they've got it hard.
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14 Years Ago


oh my... i didnt realise how angry i was until i started that and then i just kinda went on and on... i guess i really hate them hey? sorry bout that.
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14 Years Ago


I read this post, and I think to myself "This, Stephen... This is the reason you have chosen to become boring. This is the reason you don't bother socialising with people. Why you sit alone at night, writing, and listening to jazz music. You do this, because if you were placed in an area where lots of these pretenders are, you would make the seamless transition from "writer" to "serial killer". Never forget that."

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14 Years Ago


yes! yes, yes, YES! ugh they make me sick. i think this thread has just turned into my own private rant line or sumthing but seriously! What is the point of pretending to be something you're not? wouldn't it take far more effort than just being yourself no matter how hated you might end up? i want to crack evry little one of their pathetic little skulls. i swear they make me so angry. glad to see someone else agrees with me on that point.
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14 Years Ago


Some people think the term 'goth' means they are santanic which is soo not true (sorry, can't spell right at the moment) hell I dress in black doesn't mean I am satanic. It just means I like to style.
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14 Years Ago


Im hearing ya yuki
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14 Years Ago


Yeah, I know what you mean. And I understand everything. I hate people who think stupid s**t.
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14 Years Ago


There are too many wanna be goth/punks at my school.Thay all think they are so awesome cause they have the clothes but if you ask them anythink about band or skate label their wearing they have no idea. This one dude was wearing a Blink-182 armband and when one of my friends asked him about it he said he just liked the simble it had on it. It's just S.A.D.
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14 Years Ago


oh yeah i know. you ask people what goth is and their like, 'don't they sleep in coffins and s**t?' for f**k sake people! theyre not vampires! i blame television for this. and for god sake if any1 ever tells me again that my pentagram necklace is satanic ill shoot them. i would also like to make the creators of charmed die a long, slow and extremely painful death for making every1 believe that wiccans are all witches who have abook of shadows and spend their spare time making potions and casting spells. people need to be educated. this old lady pulled her grandson away from me the uther day when i was standing near them waiting for the pedestrian crossing lights to come on. so were supposed to assume that evry1 who dresses strange is now somehow dangerous? maybe ill infect their precious little spawn with the contaminated air that i breathe? my black fingernails will suddenly sprout into claws and my teeth will grow long and ill attack them right where they stand in broad daylight? yeah i think that thats REALLY gonna happen. dont u?
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14 Years Ago


Holy s**t that is so f*****g cruel. People need to be shot if you ask me. I love the color black, I also love the color red. but that doesn't mean s**t. People just need to learn to grow up and get educated.

Frankly wiccans do carry the book of shadows. They make it of their own families tradition. Believe me I read and look up things. I am also a female phychopathic a*s. But I'll be frank. Life is like a crsytal it is shiny and new. That was from my poem 'Life'. Feel free to read it.


I also have story about gothic wannabes.

I was in McDonalds and I was dressed black and blue, with spikes and s**t. And frankly some weird kid comes up to me and asked me if I was to sleep in a coffin what would I do. I would just look at him and reply I will bite you and drain you of your precious blood. The kid just told his grandpa and s**t and he comes with the Holy Bible and cross with holy water and I was like DUDE I DON'T WORK THAT WAY GET YOUR OWN BOX!
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14 Years Ago


ha ha yeah loving that hey? people just piss me off. my ex once sed to me that i wasnt a person i was a freak and it is to this day the sweetest thing ne1 has ever said to me (he meant it as a complement) and then i really thort about it and i realised that its true. people are differnt to freaks. were not a diffrent breed but we are completely different. so know when ne 1 calls me a freak i just say thanks.
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14 Years Ago


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Originally posted by Stephen Atwood
I read this post, and I think to myself "This, Stephen... This is the reason you have chosen to become boring. This is the reason you don't bother socialising with people. Why you sit alone at night, writing, and listening to jazz music. You do this, because if you were placed in an area where lots of these pretenders are, you would make the seamless transition from "writer" to "serial killer". Never forget that."

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Love the note about seamless transition from writer to serial killer. Amen, brother, amen!!!
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14 Years Ago


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Originally posted by Systemic Apathy
Ok. i know that the majority of us here are outsiders- probably goths and emos and all sorts of weird and wonderful peole that i love to immerse myself in. but as much as i love these kinds of people, i'm sick of all the "i'm-so-sick-of-life-even-though-i-have-no-reason-to-be" kind of s**t. i'm not saying that it's coming from any1 in here. i'm actually talking about the kids at my school. there are groups, then there are the wannabes. there are the sporty guys, there are the chicks who are like a female equivalent (kinds like jocks and cheerleaders? 'cept we dont really have them here in australia) and then there are the full metal kids which kind of melds with emos these days, there are the real emos, there are the nerds, there are me n my guys, then there are all these annoying people who think that they can be someone that their not! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! i hate the chicks who paint their nails black and cut their wrists just to say "look at me, i have issues". yeah u DO have issues! issues that have nothing to do with your life except for your craving for attention. get over yourselves! can't you see that the only people who care about u are yourselves you sick little freaks? yeah i've cut my self. i have hundreds of scars of varying seriousness, i can no longer wear skirts because the tops of my legs look like a game of f*****g naughts and crosses, but i don't go around flaunting it! i listen to depressing music, i write poetry, i cut myself, i dress in black, i paint my nails, but i don't make my life revolve around my suffering. yeah ive been through depression and it was hell, but what these stupid little b*****s are goin through is nothing. they fight with mummy and daddy over f*****g curfew and think that they've got it hard.


Well, now that's a mouthful!! Good rant!! But really, if we are Social Deviants, shouldn't we sympathize with wanna bes? Bear with me...I'm getting to it. I mean, if our world sucks or sucked at some point, because we weren't "normal" or accepted or whatever, wouldn't 'hating wannabes' be just the same as 'regular' people hating us? I mean, don't get me wrong, hate is a strong emotion and is really good fuel for writing; I appreciate that. But, I'm a libra a/k/a I can see both sides of the coin. So what I wonder is where does the healing come in?

Don't get me wrong, I love your rant, and didn't miss the parts where you said you know all I just said, but you hit some soft spots for me with saying peoples issues AREN'T issues. The reason I take issue (hehe) with that, is I used to work at an adolescent rehab for drugs/alcohol/gambling. The kids were so different, from the spoiled rich kid to the one who bathed his grandma cuz his crackhead mom left him with her. No matter what their backgrounds, they all had one piece of common ground to stand on. Maybe that's all we have to do is look for it. We are all different. We come from different backgrounds, learn different coping methods, have different thresholds for pain. There is no cookie-cutter solutions, just like no two problems are the same. Let me tell you, some days, I can take anything you give me. Other days, I cry if there's no milk in the house. I can't begrudge anyone their right to want attention. S**t, isn't that why we are all on this planet?? To be seen, heard, known, felt? To make our mark, whatever that mark is. I think there would be a lot less spree killings and suicides if everybody had someone to pay attention to them. And, um, I think I actually joined this website so I could get some attention myself. No one was reading my MYSPACE blogs. Poor me. I'm not going to cut myself about it, I just found a place that could satisfy me. This is it. So, I will continue paying attention to everyone I can, because I think we can heal the world, one clueless person at a time. Let's start with me! I'm totally clueless.

About the no-reason to be sick of life part, I gotta tell you, I have suffered from depression on and off for a very long time. And for the most part, I had no real reason to be depressed. A friend once asked me what made me depressed. I explained: Nothing makes me depressed. But sometimes I feel depressed, then I feed the depression with anything that could be considered depressing. Yeah, maybe someone should've told me to shut up. The truth is, I blogged the other day about "my right to b***h" because EVERYONE I know seems to be able to out-b***h me. Maybe I'm just a wannabe and you'll hate me now. Maybe I should be kicked out of the group. Either way, I'm still gonna keep on keeping on, and when I'm depressed, I may dramatize for effect, I may wear my "I have issues" shirt (thanks Korn), of course I'll write poetry, and I may even dye my hair black again. But no matter what I do, it's important I do it. Cuz that's what I'm here for. To do what I do. No matter how lame, how wonderful, or how insignificant. Actually, there's no such thing as insignificant in my book. Which is why I loved the quote about the fine line between writer and serial killer. We're all on edge sometimes. I'm not a jumper, myself. But we all have a reason to be here. Even if it's just to get someone's blood boiling so they can rant about us online. : ) Now, let's have a group hug and some tea. lol I'll bring the pot.
Peace!!
Namaste!
Cat

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14 Years Ago


i bow down to your logic. i was just saying that they piss me off but i do see where you're coming from. maybe we (ok, ok, I) should be more tolerant of wannabes but im just an intolerant person. i dont even tolerate most of the freaks i know. i just dont tolerate anyone but me i suppose. well jordan 2, but that's a different point. um i just had 4 hours of SATs so im not making much sense. bleh. but i will try to be more tolerant of them now.
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14 Years Ago


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Originally posted by Systemic Apathy
i bow down to your logic. i was just saying that they piss me off but i do see where you're coming from. maybe we (ok, ok, I) should be more tolerant of wannabes but im just an intolerant person. i dont even tolerate most of the freaks i know. i just dont tolerate anyone but me i suppose. well jordan 2, but that's a different point. um i just had 4 hours of SATs so im not making much sense. bleh. but i will try to be more tolerant of them now.


lol, no need to bow, at all! It's funny, cuz I wrote that right before I left work yesterday, then got stuck behind all the a******s who drive 10mph UNDER the speed limit and began to think about my tolerance level, too!!! My intolerance is just directed elsewhere, cuz I graduated a loooong time ago.
2 year olds are my favorite. They totally rule.
My man doesn't tolerate anyone else, either. He can't believe "the earth is still spinning on it's axis" with all these fucked up people on the planet. I run through a room when my sister is in it. So, I'm not holier than thou, just sometimes like to play Devils advocate. Even for good causes now and again. I think it's a Libra thing; I'm annoying. Anyway, hope you had a nice rest after your SAT's, and hope you did well on them.
Peace out.
Cat
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14 Years Ago


yeah sats werent too bad and i think i did kind of well actually so thanks.
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14 Years Ago


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Originally posted by Stephen Atwood
I read this post, and I think to myself "This, Stephen... This is the reason you have chosen to become boring. This is the reason you don't bother socialising with people. Why you sit alone at night, writing, and listening to jazz music. You do this, because if you were placed in an area where lots of these pretenders are, you would make the seamless transition from "writer" to "serial killer". Never forget that."

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Amen to that. Damn.

M.
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14 Years Ago


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Originally posted by Yuki Cross
Some people think the term 'goth' means they are santanic which is soo not true (sorry, can't spell right at the moment) hell I dress in black doesn't mean I am satanic. It just means I like to style.


That illustrates the ignorance people have for things that are just a little bit different from their own perspectives. It's easy to dismiss something they don't understand as 'evil' or 'satanic' ...or even less harsh like, 'wierd' or 'strange' ...simply because they don't want to open their minds just enough to understand.

M.
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14 Years Ago


Sometimes I wish that i could be ignorant. That I could just ignore the real world and live in my own little bubble with a few select people that could come in and out and that was that. it's be lovely. but we have to face reality at some point, but many people just chose to remain apart from anything that society may shun or think ill of. this basically leads to what we have been talking about here - people dont understand so theyre scared.
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14 Years Ago


I don,t make myself too concerned with these issues. I am personally a drifter. i have no class I am not a punk or a hip hopper or an emo or a goth but i just kinda float between them. I dont really have any friends in any groups or anything. I just wear what i want to wear for the day and what has meaning to me or whatever I think looks good on me.I am a big hip hop head so I do occasionally get annoyed by the hip hop fads and the bullshit rap is putting out now. And i get pissed at people who where bob marley shirts just because they smoke weed. But for the most part i don't get pissed at people who judge me, It is their mistake. I try to educate people on the fashions they have and the start of them and meaning behind them that they don't sem to carry with it but in the end its just clothes. And most often people apologize for judging me because though I wear clothes to reflect my personality it doesn't mean that those clothes have to reflect the personality that others may atribute to them and i am a very nice easy going person who has alot to offer at times. So I try not to waste time worrying about other people who are just trying to fit in with the fads. Though I admit it is a sad state where people are not comfortable being themselves and do not want to think for themselves just to try and fit in to a certain scene.