Relationship Help: Adult Kids Not Talking to You?A Story by Rhoberta Shaler PHDI was on Facebook this morning reading the Mother’s Day messages. Several spoke of their sense of pain and loss that their adult children were no longer communicating with them. It was particular pain of the phone not ringing and the post box empty on Mother’s Day. understand that. It made me think of a few things that might be part of that conversation and I want to quickly share them with you, just case you or someone you know is experiencing this today. Maybe this post will offer a little relationship help for you:
No matter what, the loving you do from a distance will demonstrate who you are right now. If they are open, they will receive it. If they are not open, you can know that you continue to love them from a distance and wish them well. Their journey is the one they choose. If they want to spend it looking in life’s rear view mirror, so be it. You know that the windshield is a much bigger window to the future than that. Hopefully, they will change their view, but it’s up to them. Release them from who we wish they are and focus on who we are right now. Be someone who loves no matter what. That’s how you create your quality of life! © 2012 Rhoberta Shaler PHD |
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Added on July 11, 2012 Last Updated on July 11, 2012 Tags: Relationship help, relationship, relationship at work, love, negotiation AuthorRhoberta Shaler PHDcalifonia, CAAboutRhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, makes it easier to talk about difficult things. Founder of Sow Peace® and The Optimize Institute & Center, she works with couples and teams worl.. more..Writing
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