consent

consent

A Poem by breana mae estrada
"

after Sanam Sheriff

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In this dream, the statistic isn't 1 in 3, 1 in 5, 1 in 6 because there is no statistic. There is no rape whistle swaying from our necks. No Rohypnol swimming in our drinks. There is no need for colour-changing nail polish to tell us that the stranger we haven't seen or the friend that we have is trying to take advantage of us in the alley behind the club. Or our cars in the grocery store parking lot. Or our bedrooms as our mothers think they have just gone to the bathroom. In this dream, we have no need to invent a word such as rape. No need to be afraid of who's in the dark. No need to be afraid for our daughters. No need to panic every time a man raises his voice. Every time a man raises his hand. Every time a man raises his belt buckle. In this dream, there is no more catcall, no a*s-grab, no staring so hard it feels like his eyes have already touched us in places we never consented to. In this dream, consent is part of the foreplay. In this dream, we do ask for it. In this dream, they don't touch us otherwise.

© 2016 breana mae estrada


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Added on April 24, 2016
Last Updated on April 24, 2016
Tags: trigger warning, rape, consent, female violence, child molestation, catcalling, harassment

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breana mae estrada
breana mae estrada

outer space, CA



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i live in the mojave wasteland, where i fight dinosaurs, highwaymen, and the occasional race-car driver. i laugh at nearly everything, eat poetry at every meal. my favourite colour is rainbow. i can&r.. more..