It Attacks In Silence...

"You can be in a crowded room and feel so alone

and lonely." And no one would even notice or care.

Loneliness does not always mean, you never mix or

work or go out.

Far from it. It can happen to anyone at any age and at any time,

or stage of your life. Under any situation or

circumstances.

Loneliness can cover many forms

New State, Situation Loneliness......

from moving to a new state or area or country and not finding it easy to

mix or start up new ways to communicate with new people in that place.

So you feel isolated and alone and scared. Uncomfortable and lonely.

This could also be caused by enrolling at a new school, Uni.

new Job, moving home. You name it so many reasons.

I'm indifferent loneliness.....

It could also be due to your belief in a certain religion

or your purpose in your life your belief in and no close by understands

or relates to you. So you feel left out and unconnected

to others due to this. As they don't feel the same as you.

So no common ground to communicate and mix under.

No animal loneliness...

Also, have a pet like a cat or a dog. Can give comfort and love

. And maybe if you have neither. You miss that bond

and affection from having a pet. It could also be any type

of animal from a ferret, snake whatever. You are lonely

as the reminder of old times when you had a pet. Makes

you dwell on sadness and being loneliness due to that loss

of missing out on the company of a pet.

No sweetheart Loneliness...

Or times you are just to busy with work and home life. To actually stop and make proper friends

. So you feel lonely

due to only mixing with your family ie love ones and the job

and they are just working colleagues in general. So finding

the confidence to make the leap of faith. To make friends,

in general, makes you feel lonely.

There is also the type you have loads of friends and acquaintances you mix with and do things with

in general. But you miss the quiet times, or just sitting at home having a cup of coffee

and quite chat with someone who can relate and understand you fully.

You also get the type of loneliness you have loads of friends but you feel you don't quite

100 per cent trust them. With important information or your true feelings so you just

don't open up properly. And feel lonely as you have no one properly to speak with.

So many variations of feeling and being lonely.

I guess the point, is to find out which type of loneliness you feel. And have a better understanding of it.

Then you can hopefuly work on a plan of action. To help yourself feel less lonely. Hopefully long term. Working towards some set goals to resolve your personal loneliness you feel, I guess.