Judgmental

Excessiveness of Human Nature#2

Being Judgmental is part of human nature

People do it all the time,

Saying it in a polite and good way isn't easy

And being consumed by foolishness takes it in a different way.

    

 

Author's Note

this is just quite personal to me...
tell me if I'm wrong. or you agree or disagree..

Reviews

[Rhianne Ney]

I agree because sometimes even if its unintentional I still find myself judging others...
I can't help it and I don't know why

[Pax]

yes its reallly unavoidable kabayan... but we do cope up... mistakes happens and then we learned...

[Rhianne Ney]

"mistakes happens and then we learned..." I agree with this ;D

[Pax]

Thanks for these thoughts, to think about dear friend,
I think it's never good to being judging, without knowing, if you're right,
Better you can have a good conversation, in two ways, a dialog,
and come to a compromise Then you can judge but always help the other in balance defend him/herself. If one of the two can't stand it, it's pity, but then you should let it go... Instead of continuing your wreck or unsatisfied feelings, it has no value, no effect, so again wasted energy. Lovely words Willyam!

E.L.

[Pax]

oh...i forgot this keeN insight here.. ;)
~ YES indeed... its a two way conversation never... a good real friend always says it best... you always speak the best my friend...

[~]

Being judgmental is part of human nature. Luckily, we can fight our nature. After all, if you think about it, judging someone else is NEVER about them, it is about you, and your own self esteem. Just my two cents. Thanks for the share, Mr. Pax :)

[Pax]

thanks..my friend..actually you said exactly the same with my friend...he said..don't mind those people who judge you and bully you because of that...your..you! don't mind those people because they're just bored with their life..

[~]

"Don't mind people because they're just bored with their life"......True that! Very good advice.

[Katherine Enma Pineappl..]

And there is times that we too are hypocrites because of that nature. You are correct here and thinking about it made me realize that being judgemental is unavoidable, difference between people is that some word it immediately and hurt someone and some merely keep to themselves yet what hurts the most is when somebody words it and they do it behind your back.

This has been a thought provoking read. Well done :)

[Pax]

thanks kat...i really appreciate your thoughts about the matter...

[Katherine Enma Pineapple]

you're welcome and thanks to you too

[Ama May Cooper]

True. There is nothing more deeply upsetting than the truth about human nature, we are in a way made me to be corrupt and destructive... we are made with an instinctive craving to concour and be the best despite what is placed in our way.. be that our species or another.

[Pax]

Thanks my friend..I could not agree more...

[Marie]

I agree that being judgmental is part of human nature, but saying it in a polite and good way is not easy. Better not to say anything judgemental at all.

[Pax]

thanks marie...I agree...thank you...