koty bell

Posted 10 Years Ago

Good im happy to hear it

Posted 10 Years Ago

I am doing fine and how are you?

Posted 10 Years Ago

than that's their loss! at times one needs to be alone
anyway to heal, and to think of yourself at this time
and listen to your own inner voice, not those of others,
esp. from "friends" that aren't there for you. Thank you
Koty...you'll be fine! chin up and pick up that pen :) xoxo

Posted 10 Years Ago

write...achieve your goals, dreams...work on what you
want to do! I hear you, i have seen pictures of my ex on f.b. and despite thinking you're completely done with them,
memories and pain washes over you again. i have since
(a year ago); quit doing that...why torture oneself?
I'm glad you're feeling better, no need to say you love me...
been there one too many times, emotional abandonment
and i are close, that is why i no longer have any
expectations regarding others...only to myself which i'm
afraid i still have yet to accomplish but i'm determined
to stay on that road. p.s. listen to metal, it helps :)

Posted 10 Years Ago

p.s. real friends (or even just one friend) are there for
you through the good times and bad, and vice versa...they
don't drown you with accusations, or guilt. I wouldn't
want to deal with them personally. that's up to you
though. give yourself time to heal
and seek new hobbies or interests to keep yourself
occupied, and to help you move on. :)

Posted 10 Years Ago

you welcome Koty...Heartache/break is a b***h to say the least.
there is no fault in loving someone and showing that person
love...there is an old 80's song with the chorus of
"just hold on loosely, but don't let go" --- not sure about
the exact details involved and i won't ask.

I agree with Robbie
though...you need to let go, live in
the present/think
of your own dreams for the future
and never look back.


No matter how hard it is, you'll get
through this, and sometimes you just have
to let the other person go. Whether by your own
choice, or you having no choice. Just the way
it is.
You will be strong and time is a friend.

And in the end, in time, you will start feeling better!
here if you need to talk. be well my friend and take care
((((hugs)))) :)

Posted 10 Years Ago

Hi Koty,

I'm terribly sorry, in regards to reading
Your status...here if you want to talk!
Be well...keep strong (((hugs))))

Posted 10 Years Ago

You must be strong, for yourself... Let yourself move forward, my friend... let her go...
I say that with gentle honesty...

Posted 10 Years Ago

I hope things get better for you, dear... (((hugs)))

Posted 10 Years Ago

I'm great... and you?