Trying Not To Be Selfish

When you see something that is not yours but you wish it was and you keep on trying not to be selfish... I feel like this a lot lately and I can't help it but by writing helps me with the solution.

When you see your crush having any problem getting a girl or with his girl and you happened to be friends wth him. You do your best not to be selfish and help him but no matter what you say or do you keep on thinking what if your opinion that you are giving to your crush was selfish if yes then you are not helping. though the only thing that you want is for your crush to be happy and you might lie to yourself that no matter with who she or he is you will support them and want them happy. but the truth is you want that person happy with you, you to make your crush happy and nobody else... That's selfish 

When you see a friend wearing those amazing shoes and she asks you if they go well with her outfit. You feel like they don't but you don't know if it's because you like the shoes and you don't want her to wear them or it's the truth you don't like them with the outfit. So you force yourself to lie and say that they look perfect. Mabey she is perfect but you have this voice in your mind telling you that those shoes aren't nice on her and on you would look better... This situation isn't only about shoes it's about every object that made you feel this way or even a person. That's selfish.

Also, the people who try to bully others so they can feel better and feel happier are the most selfish people ever and usually, they end up alone with their beloved self. If you are a person like that be careful with your life and if you were than m proud for you that this is all in the past... To be honest we all bullied someone in the past but its up to you to stop it and not do it again. That's not selfish.

I'll come and ask every person who will read this to tell me one day that you weren't selfish and a day that you put the person next to you first and lastly put yourself.