Modern Day ShopperA Story by Ja'Brea, the Lady in the WoodsThis is a short story about how I often feel when going to the grocery store. It’s an
ugly thing. That normalcy that escapes me. I’m sitting in my car working up the
courage to do something no one takes a second to consider. Even now it’s alarming.
Blaring. The sunlight through this window shield that’s never shielded me. My eyes.
My headache. My time. All I need is to grab some deodorant and a new toothbrush.
Basic hygiene stuff. Basic human activity. It is laboring. To sit in this car
and to be afraid of this beautiful world. Deep breath
and a quick gulp. Headphones in black to keep out the hush. Purse, wallet, car
keys, and phone. I check them all off. This is something that I can do. Connect
the blue tooth, play something anticlimactic. Play something that won’t make me
remember that I’m active. Play something with so little expectation it will
exceed them. Watch out for reversing cars, the kids, the grocery baskets, and
the wheels. Keep your pace fast but not too fast otherwise you might cause a
stir. What are
they thinking of me? Am I too attractive? Am I not attractive enough? Does my
sensuality offend? Does my sensuality invite them in? Do they look down on me
or do they think that I look down at them? Can they see my shoulders tensing?
Do they know that the dream girl is having a nightmare? Every shimmer an
accomplice of the sun, plotting against my straining eyes. Every speed bump
propelling my anxiety forward in a way that rudely interrupts my sense of time.
Confines my perspective to nervousness. Creating choices that I have to
make. Rush along and risk running in front of a moving car or slow down and
allow the car to disobey the pedestrian rule of indefinite principality. But now, I’m
in. The white, blazing lights illuminating my path to the deodorant isle. I do
a silent sing along to the song bruising through my speakers. I pass by woman
with child, uncle with aunt, biker and bus driver, a hunter of mixed nuts. I bend
down and collect my favorite brand. A comfort: reliability. I change direction.
I search for my favorite toothbrush. Around the bend. Act normal. Pretend.
Pretend that my skin isn’t itching, isn’t squirming, does in fact, feel fine.
I remind myself that this is safe. I am safe. It is not too much. These lights.
These camera phones. This collective shopping syndrome. I remind
myself that this is a privilege. An open market like this. No more caveman
hunting for leaves and berries. No more dirty fingernails. No more bare feet on
grass. Although, I wonder if I would have preferred it like that. When we were
all equals in the wild. All equally as riled up at some unknowable predator hiding
between the trees. Contemporary cartons of milk and bags of cheese. Between the
blades on grass that tingle on our insensitive feet. Would I have been just as desensitized
in a time when defenses were up for the entire census? Or was I always meant to
shake in undetectable earthquakes, holding on for dear life as the babysitter considers
frozen pizza? To the cashier
I go. Each time they’re always so beautiful. So young. So, fresh out of high
school or fresh out of tenth grade or fresh out of someplace that doesn’t hold
you for long, just long enough. In from Sunday Service, in from stay at home
duty at the kitchen counter, in from a job that fell through, so now you work part
time here. I stare at them and marvel in a polite jealousy at the way
they can stand under florescence and not seethe. They stare at me and juggle
that exercised curtesy with the knowledge that they have to stand here whilst I
within the next few minutes, can leave. Each of us, on the other side, has
something the other wants. To neither of us, would it occur, the audacity to
take it. For me it
is impossible to be someone I’m not. How am I doing today? They ask this every
time. I’m doing good. I’m doing fine. I’m doing well, thanks. Swipe, swipe. I
am pleased not to have caused them more trouble. Like those troublemaking
customers with twenty items in the fifteen items or less. They did not sign up
for this. I have gone easy on them. Given them pay with underwhelming labor. I
can do this. This is something that I can do. Through the slight muttering of
my headphones, I can murmur. “I hope you have a great day too.” Out of
those magical sliding doors I go! These doors the early 1900s people would have
gaped at. I take no heed; I am blissfully ignorant. I enjoy this freedom with the
fever of someone that has just regained it. I am a self-possessed woman. I can
do the grocery shopping. I can take care of myself. I can check off the lists. And
all it took was my ability to exists in the ambience of modern day living. Bright
lights. Sharp sounds. And every aura imaginable touching me like those handsy church
women, buttered down in coca. I am happy
now. I am slightly smiling. My clever smirk has gained an audience with the baby
pressed against the window. Just a few more feet until the luxury of my car. I
press the button and those little locks unlock. I am in. My headphones come
off. My doors are relocked. I toss my accomplishments into the passenger seat.
I connect my Bluetooth and readjust my music to something with more of an
upbeat. That ugly thing. That normalcy. It almost ate me alive the way unslept
hours do in the midst of a carnivorous test. But alas, I have feed the beast. I
am victorious. An adequate modern day shopper, at best. © 2022 Ja'Brea, the Lady in the Woods |
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Added on May 26, 2022 Last Updated on May 26, 2022 Tags: shortstory, anxiety, feminist, highlysensitiveperson AuthorJa'Brea, the Lady in the WoodsTXAboutTwenty something with the understanding that something's can be everything just as easily as anything could be nothing to someone else. Honored to be who I am and to be able to share that with you. more..Writing
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