Is love conditional or selfish?

Is luv conditional or selfish?
The worst place to fall anywhere is to FALL IN love.Once fallen in the pit called love,there's no way coming out sane.Nowadays finding unconditional love is like seeing life in Mars.But still people look out for real love.Whether conditional or unconditional,love is love.Now in the 21st century the love trend has changed completely.If you want to win the game of love you need to be mad,jealous,physco,clingy,creepy and so on to make sure that your partner is yours only.
So why love is conditional?Because now before falling in love we all keep some conditions in mind like my mate should be good looking, should earn well,intelligent,good family background,socially presentable,should look good with me and if these all matches then definitely I will fall in love.
The phrase Falling in love in which falling clearly states that doing something unintentionally or without thinking anything.But now we need to rephrase it as Rising in Love,as we match all the qualities we need in the person and by chance if it matches we just rise and grab that person.
This clearly proofs love is conditional.
If you are selfless in love you are surely going to loose your love.As now everybody is tech savvy and everything is available at the touch of a button,so one needs to be always alert and agile to know our loved one's whereabouts.We need to be mean enough to check their mobile's,laptop,tablet,PC to be sure that we are their only one.In these times of touchscreens we should be selfish to make sure that our conditional love is still with us.
And with a sad sigh I conclude love is selfish.
Happy Reading.