what's love?

I'm wondering how would people who are in love feel? shouldn't they feel very secure, up in the air as such. but why do i always feel somehow insecure, lost, uneasy..

when i thought back abt yesterday, it doesn't really make me that happy but somehow i noticed something that bf is quite closed with the other girl in the group. and she even asked him to grab her fish during the meal. i could tell that he reluctant to but i just encourage him to. of course i know that if i'm not around, he would do the same thing, which quite upsetting.  i thought i'm the special one ..but often feel that there' re many sides of him that i don't know of. and i feel that we have no much common interest or even common topic, while both of them seem to have more topics. it is so ..since they knew each other since young.

 

feeling lost in the 1st romance relationship.

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[Molafvt]

I am firm believer that "love",(true love)-is something that grows over time. We easily trick ourselves into thinking we are in love, when it is often just wishful thinking. Sometimes it is a pretty face, or a charming line that gets us interested, but in the end, time is the only thing that allows the possibility of love to be born. Also we must have things in common with that person-things that both people are "passionate" about even more than sex or attraction. If you can't be a true friend with that person then there is no chance o love at all. friendship first-love second.