F1r3Wire

I'm Eriw Erif, although I'm probably better known by my handle of 'F1r3Wire' or simply Fire. I'm 25 years young and would define myself as feminine genderqueer so I don't fit into a nice little box of male or female, although I'm male assigned at birth and currently transitioning to be somewhere in between male and female but more on the female side.
I currently live in an old bus that I got three years ago and converted into a camper van, but at some point in 2011 I'm going to live with my Mate in Derby. But at the moment the bus makes where I'm from a little complicated. I would say that my true home is Whitby up in Yorkshire, but work forces me further south, so I tend to hang around Nottingham because that's where most of my work comes from. But I also have close friends in London and Manchester, so I try and get to each of those cities at least one weekend every couple of months. Finally I love to travel and attend events, so spend some weekends running up an down the country. So where I'm from just sort of happens really, it's best to ask me where I'm from today.
I have two different jobs, the job that I love doing is road crew work, do PA and lighting set up for events, but unfortunately I can't make enough money out of this to live off of, so I also work as agency HGV (truck) driver.

I live by a Way, this is part religion and part code, for religion I always describe myself as a pagan, and code I live by is somewhere between gentleman's and rouge. My Way is mostly based on Witchcraft and Wiccian beliefs, but there are several other bits of religion thrown in there as well. For the most part I celebrate the Sabbaths of the Wiccian calendar and mostly fit with those beliefs. But I also have some parts of my religion based on Paganism, Buddhism, Tao, and a few beliefs of my own. I tend to keep my beliefs to myself, and don't discuss them as they are deeply personal.

I feel that I'm 'out of time' and I tend to refer to myself as a Neo-Victorian, which fits me into the Gothic scenes quite well. I tend to dress in Victorian-esc clothes most of the time, but I do have a habit of flipping extremes and switching to Cyber-Goth clothing when the weather gets warmer or a party calls for it. Although at the moment I'm struggling with clothes as the clothes I like tend towards the very strict formal dress but any time I wear obviously female clothing I get taken as a cross dresser.

I'm fairly kinky, but I don't define very well on the usual scale of Dom/sub, I would say that I'm mostly a switch but I never fit into nice little boxes so I only really use labels for the ease of others. I have both sadistic and masochistic tendencies, I enjoy both inflicting and receiving pain. It is one of my gripes that I don't bruise or mark easily so I can't wear my Mate's marks for very long. From parts of my Way there is a bit of kitten in me, who likes to come out and play, there are also little tendencies a part of myself I call 'Fire-chan' but I wouldn't say that I'm a little.
I'm monogamous and am very happily with my my Mate and the love of my life Vincent 'Wolfwynd', so while I'm not looking for partners, play or otherwise, I'm always happy to make new friends.

Finally if people want to know any more about me feel free to message me, and I always write back as I'm always happy to make new friends.