Caring for the elderly.A Story by Relic
As of today, I've been a caregiver for my father for many years.
He struggles with Parkinson's disease, blindness, dementia, and a torn meniscus in his right knee which prevents him from walking. For years he's suffered from an imbalance problem that's caused more falls than I can calculate. He's broken his hip, fractured his pelvis twice, and now must deal with confusion when it occurs. Usually late at night. (dementia). Friends have often asked how I take care of him. They ask this with a look that says - what am I in for? What will I have to face in the future? So I tell them: You have to do things you don't want to do. You have to see things you don't want to see. You have to smell things you don't want to smell. You have to hear things you don't want to hear... but you do it anyway and you try not to complain to anyone else including yourself. Getting old and dealing with its consequences is a part of life that's not always fair for a parent or their child. But a lot of the time, life itself is not fair. There's an old saying that states: "Gold is tested through fire." I'm not perfect. I must always struggle to contain my frustrations and anger when dealing with his conditions. At times, I must be his motivational speaker and even a comedian to keep him - and myself - sane. But there's another old saying I think you've heard before..."This too shall pass." If you're not taking care of an elderly father or mother, someday you may have to. I hope this short writing helps in some small way.
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Added on August 16, 2020Last Updated on September 1, 2020 |