Where has she gone to?

Living with dementia

Where has she gone to?

The girl who I once knew was happy and full of fun.

She enjoyed life.

Had lots of hobbies.

            Which one should I do today.

She cooked and baked for us.

The best cook in the world.

 

The fun has left her.

            The bright eyes are now dull.

            Like there is no one in.

We don’t want them to take her away.

            They would not look after her.

Care for her.

Just sit her in a chair.

We will keep her here with us.

            Keep telling her we love her

            Keep telling her what’s for tea.

            Running her house, as she would like.

 

Wild Rose 2024

Reviews

[Chris Shaw]

I feel so sad reading this, but I can also tell just how much this lady is loved. Dementia can get really difficult (my aunt has it) but if the care can continue at home then I think that is wonderful. You have lost the girl you once knew and that is really painful, but you have wonderful memories to sustain you . Sending you best wishes.

Chris

[peter Charlesworth]

Thank you Chris for the encouragement
So far I have had three stays in hospital with her
read moreThank you Chris for the encouragement
So far I have had three stays in hospital with her
Each time we got a private room
On the first one I was taking her to the toilet first thing in the morning The nurse said you cant go in there with her > I replied ' we have been married for 60 yeard now and shared the same bed and even drink from the same cup. Aw go on then in that case.
On one she was in tears > she had been told she was going home > the the doc never came to see her
He was making his notes opposite - So Isa at our open door so that he could see me cuddling her
He sent a junior doc to talk to us - we were sent home
Oh &nd the social services sent her for three sets of tests each time ment another night in hospital _ so Isaid tothe doc - it everything is OK on thescan can youget us out before they have a cnnferance

she came back a care worker whisked the chair away, anothes said go and get her papers - I saic we need our son to pick us up - He should be here in a few minutes
Last time social services said she was too unsteady on her feet
She has been sitting here for four days > you limbs stiffen up just sitting and ay our age it is even worse your legs would be stiff Also she has a walking frame at home and a wheel chair for shopping
Let m e take her home and give her a weeks exrecise then see how she is
Your attitude is that I should not be out because I am waiting for a second careract op and I am seeing double - I know that I am not allowed to drive but according to your rules I should not be out alone. I will fight you in court and get you taken off this work if I have to do - we came home
& I may need reading specs

[Chris Shaw]

Remember to look after yourself as well my friend. Take care.

[peter Charlesworth]

I have another week, then I should be allowed to drive.
Then we will be able to go away in our motorhome, definitely not over the waters

Just had a thought I have a few paintings that I have done > I will add them to my photos

[Chris Shaw]

I’ll look out for them. That will be lovely if you can get about in your motor home.