Home
The doctor finally came and woke Imogene at 4 in the
morning. We have been taking turns taking a nap in the large chair in the chemo
room while Barbara was down the hallway struggling to keep going.
"Wait a minute!" Imogene said, before returning to the chemo room and
motioning for me to come with her. "You're family too!", she said.
We walked down the hallway, around the corner and pressed the large button to
open the doors for the operating room suites. We stood there until Barbara's
surgeon greeted us, him firmly shaking my hand and saying "it's great to
see you again, but I wish the circumstances were different, " before
turning to embrace the large woman.
"We need to talk," he said, "come down to my office and I'll explain
what's going on."
We walked down a hall and as the doctor opened his door, we allowed Imogene in
first, followed by me. We sat down in chairs facing his desk.
"We've come to the part of the roadway that I had hoped that I would have
retired before getting here. Barbara is holding on, but she is barely holding
on. We have done as much as we could do, but the simple fact of life is that
her heart is not working and we have had to start it up three times now. And
that," he said looking at me, "is really two times more than what she
has wrote down for us to do for her."
I looked at the medical doctor and then at Imogene, who produced some tissues
and was wiping her face.
"What are you saying?" I asked.
"I know you're going to ask me how much time does she have. The truth
is," the doctor stated, looking at Imogene and then at me, "we don't
know. Your..."
"...Sweetheart", I said, filling in the relationship title.
"Your sweetheart is in there fighting for everything she's got to stay
alive. She has this idea that she wants to see two more sunrises before she
leaves us. She knows she's dying...she's known this for about a week but she
wanted to keep this from you, Mike. You have been so very important in her life
despite your work that she did not want you to see her in such a
situation."
I looked down at the carpeting from my seat.
"Can we see her?" Imogene asked. I raised my head back to meet
everyone else's head.
"Yes, of course you can," the doctor spoke. "Right now she's
sleeping but she knows that breakfast will be ready in a hour or so and she'll
be hungry then. I'll call one of the floor nurses to take you to see her."
The doctor picked up the phone beside his chair and punched some buttons.
"Can you have a floor nurse to come to my office please? Thank you."
The doctor hung up the phone.
Imogene looked at me and then at the doctor and said "I know you...and
everyone else here...have been doing all they could for my sister. Thank you
all so very much..." We both got up and shook the doctor's hand. We then
waited for the nurse to knock on the door and then come in. The doctor
instructed to please take them to see Miss Barbara.
"Imogene, Mike will be along in a minute," the doctor spoke. The
nurse and Imogene went onward and closed the door behind them.
"First, I want to confirm that Barbara's care has been picked up by you
and the hospital. Is that right?"
"It is," I said, returning to the seat I was sitting at. "Any
problems with that?"
"No. We are just so used to people paying via insurance. You're a writer,
is that correct?"
"I am. My recent book has been advanced and I used that money along with
money Barbie....Barbara and I have saved to pay for her care."
"Do you know what her funeral plans are?"
"We both are to be buried together on Axtel Mountain, overseeing the
valley where she...we...live. Imogene is the closest relative and will get all
of her things which she did not assign to a child...or to me. Her parents have
passed on, as mine have. Her children will come to the funeral, but only out of
respect. She wrote all of this down in a will she kept at the bank in
town."
"The medical instructions, which I have already broken twice by reviving
Miss Barbara, also states that she did not want you to be there when she
passes. Something about remembering her as she was living, and not doting on
her death or something like that. However, I am going to let you see her before
she passes on..."
"Please don't, doctor."
The medical professional looked at me. I repeated my statement.
"Don't you want to see her one last time?"
"I did. I saw her smile at me when I let her go to have her cath cleaned
and flushed. I saw her smile when her sister and her held each other
tight."
I started to tear up.
"Barbie always had my best interests in mind. She gave me hell when I
deserved it, and loved me as if I God's gift to manhood when she sensed I
needed it. I could not have asked for a better mate, a better friend, a better
object of my love and affection. I could have found someone younger, someone
with more of a body, someone..." I stopped and wiped my face with my arm.
"She gave me pieces of her heart which is why she's down there trying to
live with the pieces she's got left. Let her go this time, Doc. I'll see her
again...I am sure of it." I buried my face with my hands and cried
silently.
The doctor walked around, touched my shoulder and nodded slightly. "Just
wanted to let you know; but it seemed that you two already talked through this
a while back... Let me see how Imogene is doing. You can stay here if you like
for a bit."
The doctor was gone for about 20 minutes while I composed my body and wiped my
face with my arms. I then left his office, went to a men's room, and rinsed my
face in the sink, followed by wiping it with some paper towels.
I walked back out and sat down in the operating waiting room area. I waited
through what I believe was breakfast time
Imogene came and found me. She pulled my body upward from the chair, held me
and started crying.
"Home", she cried, "that's all she said to me, "Home".
I held her as tight as I could as I also cried.