How to Love Oneself

yup, i have some issues with this. ~ it's a quote ~

You have too much insecurities and

too many judgments on yourself

That blocks acceptance.

Reviews

[KAOlmsted]

I think it goes this way for a lot of us, Pax...I used to deal with mine by trying to be a perfectionist, and do you know where that left me more often than not? Sitting in a pool of emotional wreckage. These days I try to face the insecurities head on and limit judging myself (because I just know someone's already doing that for me *laugh*) and try to focus on the things I'm good at and, after telling myself a thousand times I'm actually good at something, I even start to believe it. We're all a hot mess when it comes to this. Just take a breath, shake it off, and persevere, baby.

Great job.

[Pax]

~ smiling ~
sometimes a thousand times isn't enough for our hard headed skull, but then again it does pierce through most of the time :) ~ I like the idea of limiting the judgemental self, because its true that someone is already doing that hehe ~ shake it off is the best thing to do ;) ~ and it goes to my fav song by flourence

It's always an honor for me when you come by ~ thank you very much Kimmer ~

[KAOlmsted]

It's always my pleasure, Pax. I enjoy my visits immensely.

[smilempsn]

I liked this.... ^-^
Such a open n true quote...

[Peter H]

linear profound words .

[Androglossia]

Your quote reminds me of my fave part of the poem Desiderata.

"If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself."

I liked your axiomatic wisdom, Pax.

[Pax]

now that's new word for me - wide reader talaga tong idol ko, naks...
axiomatic - big word... daghang salamat idol.....but really this quote is a reminder for myself...

[Caradoc]

How true.

Most never come to realize or accept that the biggest obstacle in their path is themselves.

Thank you for this little bit of wisdom.

-Caradoc

[Pax]

and what you just said is much truer - and that's the intent of my quote... grateful and thankful for your review my friend...

[Caradoc]

You're always welcome.

[Criss ;)]

Wow...what a great thoughts fella.....after a long time...i read yours....i think you dropped here your "PSYCHOLOGY"...don't you think ?...hahahaha :)
it's a deep thought, no one can think even we think about it everyday, we passses through it, but never think n can't be write such a piece that you've dropped fella......

you again got me fella.....i was just wishin' to read your stufff n see...i loved this.
carry on fella....great job.
have a nice writin'
take care :)
(great to see ya again fellaaaa....!!)

[Pax]

hello there my fella friend ~ it's great to hear your thoughts about this ~ yup, I'm the PSYCHOLOGY of my own self ~ lol ~ I'm glad your enjoying my works ~ thank you very much!

[Sami Khalil]

I just saw this poem Mr. Pax . I guess it slipped my attention. I love it...Excellent...:)

[Pax]

thanks my friend , always :)

[Sami Khalil]

My pleasure...:)

[quinfinn]

it may indeed be a quote, but it is a worthy quote, nonetheless. what if we all went around thinking all the quotes were posted? i think many good quotes would be lost to attrition and apathy. well done, Pax.

[Pax]

thank you my friend ~ i think all good quotes are a good reminder for us and i think our heart will know.

[Daisie Vergara (Dhaye)]

Pax, don't forget that you should love yourself over any other things and people around you. If some are too judgmental on you and you grow with too much insecurities, nobody will help you except yourself. If you become weak, you prove to them that they are right. So you have to prove them they're wrong.
Love yourself. Love yourself. Love yourself. It's the best gift we can give to ourselves.

Anyway, that was written almost a year ago. I can see now that you are totally different. :)

[Pax]

you know kabayan ~ i grow up being judge always ~ maybe that is why i change a lot during college time para walng mag judge pero ganun parin eh ~ it never stop ~ i just learn to understand them while my insecurities remain ~ it never fades but i tried to trim them each with acceptance ~ in writing i have learned a great deal about myself ~ so i guess i'm preparing for the outburst of the tempest ~ thank you so much kabayan

[Daisie Vergara (Dhaye)]

May we both find our strength from our weaknesses,
happiness amidst the gloom,
and our own beauty through the depths of our souls.

[Pax]

in my weakness I'll find the strength to go on :) thanks!

[Marc Marlon Villaflor]

I begin to hate the colonial invasion, because of them they set the standard of everything that's why I have a lot of insecurities. I was not able to meet those standards and it is hard to accept it because I have a blurry judgement. Lol this makes sense :) this is really true and I can relate on this. Thanks for sharing Pax.

[Pax]

your welcome kabayan and thanks as well ~ change is inevitable ~ i for one partly blame the perfectionist or should i say the perfect image that the media portray ~ though i can't really blame them much for i enjoyed watching ~ so i can say the media has duality ~ it can either a good learning or a bad influence ~

hehe ~ blurry judgement eh, LOL ~ mine i battle the worst critique in my head everyday ~

thank you so much for your input kabayan, i so appreciate this :)

[Marc Marlon Villaflor]

Welcome Pax, I have fun reading this piece :)