This was written to capture the aftermath of a man dealing with the struggles of everyday life after losing his wife. What you are reading is what he hears in his head, it’s his wife’s voice reminding him of what to do and what’s to come. The lines in italics speak his response.
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"When you are all out of prayer". Very powerful ending. Very good, empowering and enlightening about the supposed mundane.
Upon reading your author's note, I get a whole other impression and inspiration. I love the italicized response. Well composed
Posted 1 Year Ago
1 Year Ago
I'm glad you liked my thought process behind the use of italics. Thank you, Brad!
Oh Kelly, this is a hard read reminding me of ten months cancer treatment when my husband was caring for me and our three grandchildren who were all under ten. He did everything and the mundane chores became the structure that got him and us through the day. I was able to tell him what to do though, when the going got rough. All sorts of thoughts ran through my mind when I read these lines. Most of all, that she is still with him, inside his thoughts, gently and reassuringly telling him what needs to be done. Yes, one step at a time is the mantra. His final response in italics, so important. Yes, when prayers don’t do it, breakdown and weep. Not many men do that and yet it is essential to let those trapped emotions out and not be afraid to do so. Powerful poetry, close to what was once home and it brought on a tear or two.
Some of the revelations I've read in the reviews I've received have astounded me, like the impact of.. read moreSome of the revelations I've read in the reviews I've received have astounded me, like the impact of yours, Chris. It's enough to make me wonder where we draw our reservoir of strength from, and how we find the will to go on. Is it prayer, is it our faith, or is it a God that we feel has abandon us? Perhaps it is what you said it should be - to simply allow yourself to breakdown. That kind of pain needs an outlet, yet most of us carry on with it trapped inside of us. Thank you, Chris, for a most evocative review. Many blessings!
1 Year Ago
You are welcome Kelly. Your poetry never disappoints and often reaches the parts that others don’t.. read moreYou are welcome Kelly. Your poetry never disappoints and often reaches the parts that others don’t travel too:)
“ Fall to your knees
when you’re all out of prayer…
…when you’re all out of prayer
breakdown.”
OMG dear Kelly, I can’t explain how much I feel your words and photo… I can’t tell you how much it resonates with me right now. The lines are so true, so true. Can’t say any more. You touched me deeply. My husband on oral chemo. My little pup on sub q fluids daily .I pray, I pray, sometimes I breakdown. You have said it brilliantly. Xo
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1 Year Ago
My dear Annette, I shall pray for you and your husband, but please know I am here if you ever need t.. read moreMy dear Annette, I shall pray for you and your husband, but please know I am here if you ever need to talk. God's blessings and bountiful love, always! xo
Bereavement is like an undercurrent that never ceases in good moments or the empty ones. It keeps flowing deep within while on the surface the work of daily living goes on. One goes on, apparently yet often breaking inside. This is such a beautiful poem on one of the toughest tests life can bring.
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1 Year Ago
I've often wondered how my mother did it after my father died, leaving her a widow at the age of 32,.. read moreI've often wondered how my mother did it after my father died, leaving her a widow at the age of 32, with four children ranging in age from 4 years to 11. How is it possible to survive that? Thank you so kindly, Divya.
1 Year Ago
It must have taken superhuman strength for her to go on and do the best she could for her children... read moreIt must have taken superhuman strength for her to go on and do the best she could for her children. It must have called on all her reserves of strength, the likes of which one cannot imagine exist in oneself. I always place special stress on that one line in the Lord's Prayer - "Do not test us (put us into temptation)", because this is such a test. She was put through that test and came out beautifully.
You're most welcome, dear Kelly. ⚘ ❤
The weight that one must feel in this situation must be unbearable. Long gone are the days when women stayed at home to raise the family and take care of the home. Now, it takes two just to make ends meet. When one or the other is gone and the burden is all on the one, it must be exhausting. Parents sacrifice so much of themselves for their children, neglecting their own needs in the process. That "breakdown" moment must come often at the end of a long day when all alone. Your poem captured this well, Kelly. Well done.
Posted 1 Year Ago
1 Year Ago
You review in the same evocative nature in which you write. Thank you most kindly, Linda!
Habits are hard to break and when they are broken by force, they continue in the mind. A type of mental addiction you portrayed so well. Simple and repetitive just like much in religion as you follow up in the second part of the poem. How to break the habit and do something about it is the question. The last line "breakdown" Nicely done.
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1 Year Ago
I believe we rely upon the relativity of time, in the wake of death. I watched my stepfather go thro.. read moreI believe we rely upon the relativity of time, in the wake of death. I watched my stepfather go through it when my mother died, reducing him to the fractured pieces of who he used to be. Thank you, Soren!
Life is a struggle, especially when your companion in life is no longer there. You hope they'll answer, give some guidence; any help at all during the stress that grips you.
This is relatable to me in some ways. Another great poem, Kelly.
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1 Year Ago
Isn't it engaging how a photo can prompt us to write? That's how this came to be. The scenario pain.. read moreIsn't it engaging how a photo can prompt us to write? That's how this came to be. The scenario painted itself in black and white. I only added the words. Thank you, Tim. Your visits always make my day!